Astrologie und Seelenverwandte November 8, 2016

As a full time relationship astrologer I get to see soulmates fairly regularly. Even with a huge client base however my sample size is fairly small compared to regular couples, so my research in this area is far from complete. Several common patterns have however been identified…

The gift of irrelevancy
Everything outside of the relationship becomes less important to the couple and even severe problems and obstacles become irrelevant to their happiness.

It’s scary!
The word “love” is very over-used in modern society. Typically these days it just implies fondness or tolerance. True love however is scary. The more you love someone the more they can hurt you. It’s normal to feel a level of fear when you truly love someone, yet it often shocks people when they feel it for the first time. Especially if they thought they had been in love before.

Am I good enough?
It’s quite normal for each partner to feel they aren’t quite worthy of their partner. This isn’t insecurity but it’s a similar concept. There’s also a subtle feeling that they make you a better person. (I’ve never found soulmates in a destructive relationship)

Opposite viewpoints.
A fascinating element of the relationship, opinions are often shared yet the logic used to arrive at them is often literally opposite.

Acting out of character
Typically a soulmate brings out a different side of you than previous partners have. Recurring themes include being more nurturing and selfless than in prior relationships. Soulmates seem to always bring out the best in each other (especially apparent if they have a history of destructive relationships prior).

A sense of wasted time with previous partners
It’s common that when soulmates compare their current happiness and dedication to that of previous relationships they’re fairly horrified at how unhappy and dissatisfied they were.

There’s an abnormally high level of trust. You can’t truly love someone unless you implicitly trust them. They just hold too much power over you to “let go” beyond a certain point without trust (destructive behavior and ‘relationship sabotage’ often derives from a lack of trust, perhaps for this reason)

Very high compatibility scores
Typically these are between 2 to 4 times higher than average couples in my compatibility readings scoring system. They leap right out! Between 1993 and 2015 I’ve not had any couple which I labeled as soulmates split up or divorce, so I’m fairly confident my system works!

How can astrology help identify your soulmate?

It’s often assumed that the best relationships involve people who are substantially identical with similar temperaments etc. The reality however is that the best relationships involve people who are identical in some areas, but opposite in others. The logical grouping of personality traits used in astrology provides an ideal framework to identify, measure and predict this phenomenon.
Soulmate astrology readings

I specialize in compatibility readings delivered via email. These include a structured analysis designed to identify and highlight soulmates. I score 8 key areas of the relationship for soulmate potential and compare to averages. Finding your soulmate is of course rare, but this system makes it immediately apparent, even if you have only recently started dating.
Goals of this reading

The reading first explores your unique personality and your partners, and then moves on to examine your relationship together in areas ranging from sexual attraction to problem solving. The relevant astrological charts are included, together with notes on how the information is derived from them.
Understand your relationship

In this section I examine everything about your relationship and how well you mesh together in different areas. I look at both the rough and the smooth edges of your interaction and use scores to highlight any unusually strong or weak areas compared to averages.
Understand yourself

Unless you understand yourself it’s much harder to know what you want and need from a partner, and it’s much harder to recognize the right partner when you find them. This section explores everything about your unique personality.
Understand your partner

Similar to the section on you, though typically with a lot more surprises! What needs must be met in order for your partner to be emotionally fulfilled? What layers of their personality do you need to understand in order to deeply and passionately connect with them?

How do they view you?
How do they view your relationship?
What are they motivated by?
What do they find most attractive in a partner?

Be more attractive to your partner

You’ll be given a lot of information about your partner which you can use to communicate with them on a deeper level, or to showcase the traits which make you more attractive to them.


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